‘When are you going to get a proper job?’ was a question I heard from one of my ex colleagues nearly every single time I saw him at work.
I was working in retail on the shop floor, dreading getting out of bed every morning and absolutely hating the Christmas period when customers would get even crazier than they were throughout the rest of the year.
Sidenote: please be kind to retail staff.
I’ve been working in my new job in social media (which to many probably still isn’t real-world enough) for almost a year and even though I’m constantly tired (I think I’m getting old), I’m over-the-moon happy with the work I do and the people around me. So here’s what I’ve learnt about life in that year.
It’s okay to live for the weekend. So you work 9-5 and it might be that way until you hit 65. You’re one of those people who ‘TGIFs’ every single week. Your only socialising occurs when the clock hits 17:00 at the end of the working week. I’ve worked random hours and random days and for me, 5-2 just makes more sense and gives me more of a routine. If I use my two days off wisely, I feel like I can deal with working the other five.
I will forever be learning. I love learning new things – facts, skills, methods, whatever. I’ve personally progressed over the last year and can’t wait to continue learning 5ever.
It’s okay not to see your old friends all the time. That doesn’t mean I don’t miss them like crazy, but real friends will still be there for you when work isn’t so hectic. The best friends are the ones you can go weeks or months without seeing and still have everything be normal when you do.
Having a work life balance is tough Trying to juggle work, boyfriend, extra curricular, socialising, eating healthy, exercise and saving money is nigh on impossible. This is one I’m definitely still trying to crack. If you have any top tips, help a sister out.
What, if anything has your job taught you?